亲爱的幂儿，
我们以前去过好多次Zoo, 有时妈妈忙，星期六有时爸爸有时也会带幂儿去，我们小家有会员，自然那里就变成我们周日出游的地方。分享下爸爸在后面的视野吧。
刚下车，爸爸应该是拿幂儿红色的车，比较慢。
动物园里面有两个主题园区，一个有熊猫和热带河川，另一个是狮子大象的。
看看妈妈抱着你，让你看到海洋小朋友。
爸爸认为妈妈这件衣服颜色有一种绿色海洋的味道和爸爸喜欢的蓝有得比，有时爸爸也偷偷穿呢呵呵。
幂儿你看，一趟动物园一日游，妈妈抱幂儿多久呢，妈妈手力变强可能是幂儿帮忙练成的 ：）
最后送上爸爸在里面拍的红色毛毛花。 希望幂儿去动物园时，记得我们的时光。
亲爱的幂儿，
爸爸发现，渐渐的把你的日记，写成自己的日记了哈哈。没事，就当爸爸分享不同的记忆和瞬间，可能对你会有些启发也说不定。
那时妈妈买了一个帐篷，蛮大的，放在爸爸马来的房间，爸爸记得那时我们在选哪一个小动物，小朋友时能住进去时，幂儿好开心。
那时，幂儿在楼下还有一个黄色的帐篷，里面也有幂儿慢慢的毛毛动物，有时爸爸出去工作时，奶奶会让你在里面睡午觉。因为新加坡的家空间不够了，妈妈时常笑说，把爷爷的家当作储存室.
爸爸祝幂儿，永远都有自己的小小天地，就像你在帐篷里看到的世界。
亲爱的幂儿，
128是个好数字，也是爸爸妈妈的结婚的纪念日。让爸爸和幂儿分享那美丽的夜晚。从Wonderful Tonight，这首歌说起。爸爸和妈妈刚约会时，有去巴厘岛玩，那时候在海边的餐厅吃饭时。有歌手拿着guitar让人点歌，来到我们这桌，那时妈妈点了一首，Bruno Mars的歌，因为很新，那位歌手还没学会，爸爸马上点了Wonderful Tonight. 爸爸很喜欢的一首歌. 后来在婚礼上，其中一首，就有它。爸爸很喜欢里面的歌词和旋律.
爸爸记得那时有不少不同国家的好朋友来到我和妈妈的婚礼，有荷兰，澳洲，泰国，中国，马来西亚，加上新加坡，非常有心和爱的夜晚。
看看现场：爸爸相信幂儿长大后，可能连幂儿有孩子时，这个地点，还会在，因为那晚是在，”Night at the Museum”里庆祝的。
爸爸记得这瞬间和里面的话，照片面是爸爸和外公的手和妈妈的，拿相机的是爸爸的好朋友，照片里的男人都有一颗柔软的心。
那时在婚礼，有发表爱的宣言，爸爸特别紧张，还好看到姥姥，顺利的讲完了。那时爸爸和妈妈演讲在家排练了几会，用了一个金色麦克风。想起来也蛮好笑的。
爸爸祝福每一位在我和妈妈的 Wonderful Tonight婚礼里过人,
幸福快乐，享受着人间的感动和爱。
Dear Rheia,
Among our customers and good friends around the world, there is one family who came from Netherland or Holtlant (wood land in old Dutch term) who has interesting stories with us.
The first visit was their father, who came in a fancy sunglasses, serious looking at first but full of humor later 🙂 Once he was in our warehouse, he move around quickly, Daddy and Grandpa was puzzled, we are the specialist of our wood, most of the customers usually will have a general “overview” of our thousands pieces of wood(may take many days to inspect all our wood in stock) then they will sit down to discuss the price.
The sunglasses man pick up a few pieces up and quickly move to another batch multiple times. Daddy went to him and asked “Dear Friend, what are you looking for, perhaps i can help you in finalizing the size of wood you need.”
That Sunglasses uncle, immediately begin to pick up few pieces of wood quickly and randomly give Daddy some lottery number “6,5,7,9,4,8,7,9,10” He was teaching Daddy about grading our wood using his standard.
In our early days, we have a general mix of wood between good and bad, not focusing much to precisely ranking as natural products are always “One and Only”. Being a Bruce Lee Fan, Daddy quickly grab random pieces of wood after him, saying out loud Daddy’s set of lottery number : “2,3,7,8,6,9,8,7”
“You know what i want” he said to Daddy, Daddy then replied “I will grade your container and you will get something average of 7 and above” We sealed the first deal, which continue for more than ten years until today.(He was very happy and forgot his sunglasses on our table, me and grandpa drive and pass to him)
Some years later, came his Son and Daughter, whom i always joke around, “your Dad teaches me his Ranking system” and i am part of your group external network. I like them both plus the old man, we had fruitful relationship over the years.
So my Dear Rheia, in life if you have awareness on thinking and emotions, sometimes you can attach yourself to groups that exert an upward pull.
Dear Rheia,
Daddy once heard about something like this “Be a Normal person when everyone is crazy” I do not understand it fully, until in our living world, when we have situations which turn things upside down, this wisdom of life suddenly make sense.
Let me share with you, when Daddy was younger, Daddy had a Four Wheel Drive SUV which is the same brand as Grandpa, the car was meant for our wood business and easier access to our lands and plantations. Daddy do not worry when there is any flood or heavy rain because using a four wheel drive system and high clearance level of the car, we can easily overcome the small challenges on the road.
There was one time, Daddy was driving and suddenly right Infront perhaps a 200m away from my car there was suddenly a lot of dust, loud noise and there was countless number of timber logs falling down from a 40ft uncovered lorry.
The cars Infront, beside or maybe all round Daddy was in crazy mode, some do emergency brake, some keep honking while the timber log was scattering down on the road non stop.
It was a dangerous moment, even inside a big four wheel drive SUV with hardy shell, Daddy suddenly feel helpless, it was coming right at daddy and cars on the same row as me and that key moment, Daddy tell myself, OK, let’s drive around the log like a racing game, within a few turns, some luck and perhaps act of god, Daddy was able to avoid the timbers crashing down and drive passed the hazard point.
When Daddy’s soul was partially back, there was already quite a number of people beside the road looking at Daddy’s moving car, (i was like driving down the red carpet of an Oscar event) almost all the cars behind Daddy was either hit by the tree logs or the tree logs was lying like chopstick on the road, preventing them to move. Daddy look at the rear mirror, it was a messy situation and continue driving further away from the incident area.
Later that day, Daddy had a wonderful early dinner at the shopping mall, where i was supposed to meet Grandpa for banking purposes, Daddy called Grandpa and told him, Grandpa has to use another route to come downtown, otherwise it will be super jam for the accident area. The next day, when Daddy was reading the local newspaper, there was quite a big news coverage for this incident.
Sometimes, being normal is not a bad thing after all.
亲爱的幂儿，
在你还没出生时，爸爸和妈妈还有姥姥和外公曾经一起去过台湾旅行,那时有个地方应该是叫七星潭，我们在海边休息和漫步。来到沙滩一处，有些小鱼在岸边游着，外公这时在沙滩上画了几下，爸爸那时不知道是为何，后来看到外公小心翼翼的画出了沙滩轨道，让小鱼一步步游进来。爸爸那时想，外公好聪明哦，大伙也在那时看着外公和玩沙，爸爸那时看到有小鱼靠近，一把使劲儿把水泼上来，几条小鱼上岸啦，外公的沙滩隧道也抓到鱼啦。
可能幂儿大点的时候会发现，有些事必须像外公那样安排，聪明的让鱼自己游进来，有时候，可能有点像爷爷讲的生意经那样，机不可失 时不再来， now or never来安排事情。
爸爸祝幂儿，长大后能用上两家人的智慧。
亲爱的幂儿，
你是爸爸的One and Only,也是我们两家的 One and Only,这句 One and Only, 坦白讲，对爸爸有不同的用意，不同的记忆。让爸爸和你说下吧：
爸爸记得刚回来帮爷爷做工时，爸爸时常和奶奶讲，我们的批发生意必须向外扩展，现有的顾客付款条件期是三个月，价钱低，照这样子只能拿到稳定的订单，没有往上冲的机会。
爸爸惭愧的说，自己学的电脑文凭，发挥比较大的就是在初期网络不发达的时候，建立自己的网站，来招纳生意。其实爸爸那时去看了自己顾客和对手的网站，比爸爸的旧，它们还把自己的顾客文件放在公开网站，方便内部调用。爸爸发现了，把文件整理好，开心的拿去让爷爷看： “爸爸，我们有他们顾客大部分的资料，价钱，一年大约定单，我们是供应商，价钱我们一定赢过他们的。”
那时爸爸记得爷爷说的话，“我们做生意不能这样跳过中间商”，那时我和奶奶没想到到。这个宝贵文件，一下子变得无用武之地了。爷爷还特别交代，爸爸如果找到新的顾客，不可以是这个名单里的。原本冷门的生意，大家你认识我，我认识你，已经难找新顾客了（做木的，以前很不注重线上生意的，要在网上找他们，比较难哈哈，打电话见面比较容易）
爸爸有叛逆的心，心想，好，就让我来把自己的西洋军建立起来。那时爸爸用电话，用网络，用翻译器，到处不停的找顾客。每当有顾客来看货时，爸爸驾着车载老外他们上下时，常用的其中一句话，就是我们的木，每一片都不一样， 是 “One and Only”, 就这样，开始了爸爸出口的小天地。
爸爸自己拍了一些爸爸爱的家人的一些照片，就让爸爸这个日记角落，来和幂儿分享吧。
照片里爸爸的 One and Only.
亲爱的幂儿，
妈妈和姥姥都喜欢花，时常在家里买定时送到家的花。爸爸虽然是男生，可是也喜欢花，爸爸比较喜欢荷花，莲花和osmanthus,加上特定的玫瑰香味。幂儿小时候，我们经常带你去Gardens by the Bay,那里有爷爷的木，幂儿小时候可能不记得了，我们推着你还遇到很多其他父母，都是来溜娃打发时间的，那里有冷气，妈妈喜欢看郁金香，我们也去看了几会，感觉蛮不错的。
爸爸认为能感受到季节的事物是蛮好的(爸爸很高兴你可以享受济南的四季），妈妈那时一周买一次花，其实这很重要，因为生活里存在着美丽和有生命的东西，它让我们能了解爱的光彩。每一个人，有自己喜欢的光彩，希望幂儿也找到属于自己喜欢的花与光彩。
看小时候的你，多可爱，有点baby fat 🙂
小时候的你非常可爱，长大后你如果看到爸爸写的日记，而且有零花钱，就请你的股东去看看花吧。（如果我们移动力比较慢，请多多体谅）
亲爱的幂儿，
幂儿小时候很喜欢看Robocar Poli这个动画片，其中三大主角的玩具，大家都买很多样不同款式的让幂儿玩了。我们俩也时常在商场上看到这动画片的大型摇摇车，每次幂儿看到，一定会要玩，我们也很开心让你在上面玩几分钟，爸爸和妈妈也可以看下手机。
爸爸记得我们时常看到Amber的摇摇车，然后poli的也有，Heli比较少，不过也让我们父女俩找到了，是在Great World City里，我们一起玩的。
爸爸记得有一次，你问爸爸，Roy在那里呢，爸爸想了想，也对，我们好像好没玩过Roy的摇摇车，爸爸和幂儿说，幂儿乖，爸爸会把Roy找出来的来和幂儿玩的。出了大力汽车，我们也玩了其他的，就是大力汽车，幂儿远远就看到，会叫Amber，然后跑去找它们。
爸爸找出到Roy啦，就要看幂儿还喜欢大力汽车吗哈哈。
爸爸祝幂儿 ：能像大力汽车这样，勇敢和正义。
亲爱的幂儿，
你还记得吗，爸爸曾经带你去北方家附近的一个冰淇淋店吃ice cream吗。 那时下午，带了你去公园散步，有时爸爸在你身体好时，会带你去吃。我们走出小区时，爸爸还故意问你，冰淇淋店在那个方向，小小的你，总是指向左边的店，知道冰淇淋店的方向。那时进了店里，你就会跑去看不同颜色的冰淇淋，跟爸爸说你要蓝莓还有草莓口味的。好多次，我们买了冰淇淋边走路回家，就在小区里的椅子上一起享受着美味的冰淇淋。
如果说家里谁最喜欢吃冰淇淋，可能是姥姥呢，那时疫情期间，姥姥有时出门回去买冰淇淋，姥姥吃冰淇淋时，有一种童真，那时我们虽然被限制在家，吃着冰淇淋，就神奇的让我们开心起来了呢。
妈妈吃冰淇淋有时会牙敏感，爸爸本身因为是最后一道防线，也不敢吃太多。
发一张比较好笑的照片吧，可能是幂儿第一口冰淇淋哈哈。
爸爸祝幂儿，在开心和不开心时，吃了冰淇淋都会让心情更加的好 ：）