Normal

Dear Rheia,

Daddy once heard about something like this “Be a Normal person when everyone is crazy” I do not understand it fully, until in our living world, when we have situations which turn things upside down, this wisdom of life suddenly make sense.

Let me share with you, when Daddy was younger, Daddy had a Four Wheel Drive SUV which is the same brand as Grandpa, the car was meant for our wood business and easier access to our lands and plantations. Daddy do not worry when there is any flood or heavy rain because using a four wheel drive system and high clearance level of the car, we can easily overcome the small challenges on the road.

There was one time, Daddy was driving and suddenly right Infront perhaps a 200m away from my car there was suddenly a lot of dust, loud noise and there was countless number of timber logs falling down from a 40ft uncovered lorry.

The cars Infront, beside or maybe all round Daddy was in crazy mode, some do emergency brake, some keep honking while the timber log was scattering down on the road non stop.

It was a dangerous moment, even inside a big four wheel drive SUV with hardy shell, Daddy suddenly feel helpless, it was coming right at daddy and cars on the same row as me and that key moment, Daddy tell myself, OK, let’s drive around the log like a racing game, within a few turns, some luck and perhaps act of god, Daddy was able to avoid the timbers crashing down and drive passed the hazard point.

When Daddy’s soul was partially back, there was already quite a number of people beside the road looking at Daddy’s moving car, (i was like driving down the red carpet of an Oscar event) almost all the cars behind Daddy was either hit by the tree logs or the tree logs was lying like chopstick on the road, preventing them to move. Daddy look at the rear mirror, it was a messy situation and continue driving further away from the incident area.

Later that day, Daddy had a wonderful early dinner at the shopping mall, where i was supposed to meet Grandpa for banking purposes, Daddy called Grandpa and told him, Grandpa has to use another route to come downtown, otherwise it will be super jam for the accident area. The next day, when Daddy was reading the local newspaper, there was quite a big news coverage for this incident.

Sometimes, being normal is not a bad thing after all.

七星潭

亲爱的幂儿,

在你还没出生时,爸爸和妈妈还有姥姥和外公曾经一起去过台湾旅行,那时有个地方应该是叫七星潭,我们在海边休息和漫步。来到沙滩一处,有些小鱼在岸边游着,外公这时在沙滩上画了几下,爸爸那时不知道是为何,后来看到外公小心翼翼的画出了沙滩轨道,让小鱼一步步游进来。爸爸那时想,外公好聪明哦,大伙也在那时看着外公和玩沙,爸爸那时看到有小鱼靠近,一把使劲儿把水泼上来,几条小鱼上岸啦,外公的沙滩隧道也抓到鱼啦。

可能幂儿大点的时候会发现,有些事必须像外公那样安排,聪明的让鱼自己游进来,有时候,可能有点像爷爷讲的生意经那样,机不可失 时不再来, now or never来安排事情。

爸爸祝幂儿,长大后能用上两家人的智慧。

One and Only

亲爱的幂儿,

你是爸爸的One and Only,也是我们两家的 One and Only,这句 One and Only, 坦白讲,对爸爸有不同的用意,不同的记忆。让爸爸和你说下吧:

爸爸记得刚回来帮爷爷做工时,爸爸时常和奶奶讲,我们的批发生意必须向外扩展,现有的顾客付款条件期是三个月,价钱低,照这样子只能拿到稳定的订单,没有往上冲的机会。

爸爸惭愧的说,自己学的电脑文凭,发挥比较大的就是在初期网络不发达的时候,建立自己的网站,来招纳生意。其实爸爸那时去看了自己顾客和对手的网站,比爸爸的旧,它们还把自己的顾客文件放在公开网站,方便内部调用。爸爸发现了,把文件整理好,开心的拿去让爷爷看: “爸爸,我们有他们顾客大部分的资料,价钱,一年大约定单,我们是供应商,价钱我们一定赢过他们的。”

那时爸爸记得爷爷说的话,“我们做生意不能这样跳过中间商”,那时我和奶奶没想到到。这个宝贵文件,一下子变得无用武之地了。爷爷还特别交代,爸爸如果找到新的顾客,不可以是这个名单里的。原本冷门的生意,大家你认识我,我认识你,已经难找新顾客了(做木的,以前很不注重线上生意的,要在网上找他们,比较难哈哈,打电话见面比较容易)

爸爸有叛逆的心,心想,好,就让我来把自己的西洋军建立起来。那时爸爸用电话,用网络,用翻译器,到处不停的找顾客。每当有顾客来看货时,爸爸驾着车载老外他们上下时,常用的其中一句话,就是我们的木,每一片都不一样, 是 “One and Only”, 就这样,开始了爸爸出口的小天地。

爸爸自己拍了一些爸爸爱的家人的一些照片,就让爸爸这个日记角落,来和幂儿分享吧。

照片里爸爸的 One and Only.